Easy No Bake Recipes

5 Easy No Bake Recipes

The weather has become so changeable this weekend.  And the boys, so used to being able to go outside and play have become quite irritable shall we say (okay okay I mean down right argumentative and annoying LOL).  So what to do on a rainy day…  What better than baking (it’s messy, it’s fun and the kids have something to eat at the end of it!), so here are 5 easy no bake recipes to try out over the holidays.

Chocolate Fridge Cake

This is a firm favourite in our household and quite a regular no-bake for us.  We take it in turns to suggest and change up the fillings.

  • 8oz digestive biscuits
  • 5oz milk chocolate
  • 5oz dark chocolate
  • 3½oz unsalted butter
  • 5oz golden syrup
  • 3½oz dried apricots, chopped
  • 2½oz raisins
  • 2oz pecans, chopped (optional)

Instructions
No bake cookies and cream bars

Cookies & Cream Bars

Who doesn’t love Cookies & Cream?  It’s a firm favourite in this household and these went down an absolute treat.  They look great at parties!

  • ¼ cup salted butter, melted
  • 2½ cups finely crushed cream-filled chocolate sandwich cookies (about 25 cookies)
  • 16 oz cream cheese, softened
  • 7 oz marshmallow creme (such as Fluff or Jet-Puffed)
  • 1 tsp vanilla extract
  • 1 cup coarsely crumbled cream-filled chocolate sandwich cookies (about 7 cookies), plus more for garnish

Instructions

White Chocolate & Raspberry Cookies

These healthy no bake white chocolate and raspberry cookies refined sugar free, gluten free, vegan (optional) and high in protein! The perfect snack between meals and only requires one bowl and five minutes!

  • 3 1/2 cups gluten free flour
  • 2 tblsp granulated sweetener of choice (Optional)
  • 1/2 tsp sea salt
  • 1/2 cup + 2 tblsp nut butter of choice
  • 3/4 cup brown rice syrup (can sub for honey if not strict vegan)
  • 1/4-1/2 cup unsweetened almond milk
  • White chocolate chunks (vegan recipe available, click below)
  • Dried raspberries and cranberries

Instructions
Easy No Bake Recipes

Classic No Bake Cookies

These Classic No-Bake Cookies only require a few simple ingredients and are incredibly easy to make. Loaded with peanut butter, oats, and cocoa powder, these cookies are perfect for an easy dessert!

  • 1/2 cup butter, cut into pieces
  • 2 cups granulated sugar
  • 1/2 cup milk
  • 1/4 cup unsweetened cocoa powder
  • 1/2 cup creamy peanut butter
  • 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
  • 3 cups quick-cooking oats

Instructions

Gooey Chewies

Originally a Northern Irish speciality called fifteens, but Blue Peter aptly name them Gooey Chewies! They’re delicious, they’re easy to make, and the best part is there’s no baking required.

  • 30 Digestive Biscuits
  • 15 Glace Cherries
  • Large handful of mini marshmallows
  • Handful of desiccated coconut
  • 2 tins condensed milk

Instructions

So there we go, 5 easy no bake recipes for you to try with the kids this summer, can’t wait to see your bakes (or should I say ‘no-bakes’) remember to tag #howfelicityfinds when you share.

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Kids Mental Health

The truth about kids' mental health

According to the Mental Health Foundation, nearly one in 10 children and young people aged five to 16 are affected by a kids mental health problem.

I think we all agree that the emotional well-being of kids is just as important as their physical health.  However, despite the knowledge and awareness of mental health being on the rise, 70% of young people who experience a mental health problem do not receive the appropriate support.   

And did you know that half of all adult mental health problems start by the age of 14, and 75% by the age of 18.

Some of the most common mental health problems affecting children and young people include:

  • depression
  • self-harm
  • generalised anxiety disorder (GAD)
  • post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
  • attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD)
  • eating disorders

As a parent who is open and very vocal about my own struggles with mental health, I am acutely aware that my children are more likely to be affected with their own issues, for to that very reason.  And with all the pressures that comes with being a kid in this digital age, then how do we ensure that we are there for our kids and help them get the help they need as soon as possible…

How can we help?

  1. Talk about it – Research has shown that talking openly and honestly about mental health ensures that issues can be identified earlier on.  If we ensure that our kids realise it is not something to be embarrassed or ashamed about then hopefully they will seek help when (and if) they need it.  Unsure what to say, we use the Mind Tools For Kids Coaching Cards which give us some great starting points.
  2. Create a safe place – Kids do better when they feel safe.  So try where possible to ensure they feel listened to and heard when at home.  It’s not always easy and especially when you have more than one, kids can end up feeling left out.  Try as much as possible to take the time to talk to them individually each day, even if it is just for 5 mins at bedtime each night.
  3. Encourage social activities – this has been shown to help have a positive impact on kids, by providing a space for them to work on their emotions and develop ways of coping with the challenges they face.  But do keep a check on this and play it by ear, as sometimes these kind of situations can have the opposite effect on a child.  You know your child best…
  4. Ensure they get enough sleep – If you are anything like me then I get really irritable with only a few hours’ sleep!  Well it’s just the same for kids.  A lack of sleep can cause us to experience higher levels of stress, so making sure they get to bed on time will pay off and help reduce stress.
  5. Teach them to relax – It’s all about balance, so as much as social/physical activities help, so does the ability for them to be able to switch off, especially in such a digital age.  Encourage them to have some quiet time each day; reading a book, listening to (appropriate) music or drawing for example.  A great way to wind down at the end of day, or on an afternoon.

Create strength!

We need to break down the stigma, ensure our kids don’t have to deal with that as well as their own mental health.  We need to help them become strong enough in themselves that not only will they be able to open up about their own mental health, and seek the support they require; but be able to support their peers with any challenges they may face also.

 

In a world where you can be anything, be kind – Unknown

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Teacher Gift Ideas

Top Teacher Gift Ideas

It’s that time of year again, as the end of term draws near and the summer holidays are fast approaching, the question of ‘what do we buy your teacher this year?’ arises.  It’s an age old question and one that I think gets harder and harder every year.  Gone are the days when an apple would suffice LOL.  So if you are struggling and want to buy them something that little bit different, then here are a few teacher gift ideas…

Teacher Gift Ideas

pastel monogram mug

Time for Tea?

A perfect idea for your teacher, making sure no-one ever steals their mug again at break time! Just pick one of the six colour choices available (5 x pastel tones and 1 x grey monochrome) and choose the first name initial.

Monogram Mug

 

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Because Teachers are Superheroes!

For all those lessons plans, what better for a teacher to write their notes in than these awesome notebooks!  Available in monochrome or bright pastels and in A5 or A6, these will always be popular.

Notebooks

 

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pocket notebook
Superhero Canvas Bag

'Totes' brilliant!

Make sure they have the perfect bag to carry all your homework to and from school.  These tote bags are super cool and eco friendly, available in monochrome and bright pastels.

Cotton Tote Bag

 

£19.95

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Hope that gives you a few ideas, happy end of term folks!

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Superhero crafts for kids

5 Awesome Superhero Crafts for Kids

I think it’s pretty safe to say that I love Superheroes, in fact as a family we all do.  I’m also pretty crafty, and my youngest Samuel loves making anything, so check out these 5 Superhero crafts for kids.

DC Superhero Craft Peg Dolls

Based on the hit DC Entertainment programme DC Super Hero Girls, these peg dolls are super easy and fun to make.  Of course you could make them any superheroes you wanted.  Perfect for some action packed role play!

Superhero Mason Jar Banks

Mason Jar Superhero Bank

If your kids have a Superhero bedroom, then these mason jar banks are the perfect accessory!  Not only do they look fab, but they can learn about saving money at the same time.

Comic Book Superhero Magnets

Comic Book Magnets

I love Mod Podge, so when I discovered the Mod Podge Acrylic shapes in this project I knew I wanted to try it out.  These magnets are super cute and a great craft project for older kids to try.

Superhero Wine Cork Characters

Superhero crafts for kids

The wine cork superhero characters are so simple and fun.  Another craft that is perfect for older children, and if you are anything like me then there are always some used wine corks ready to be painted… #ilikecava #pleasedontjudge #LOL

Superhero Word Bubbles

LEGO-Super-Heroes

Another brilliant Superhero crafts for kids with big imaginations, and would also make perfect decor in a Superhero room.  Perfectly sized, these speech bubbles bring to life their superhero characters for hours of imaginary play!

So there we have it I Hope you like and have fun making, I’d love to see your makes…

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Bedroom ideas for Twins

Time for Twins

Bedroom ideas for Twins – where do you start?

When they are little it’s easy isn’t it, they don’t have an opinion, their beds are only small, it’s fairly simple…

But what happens when they get that little bigger, they are in big boy/big girl beds, they have favourite colours – not always the same, or even coordinating…  They have opinions!

So here’s some bedroom ideas for twins:

So what do you do, how do you try and please not only both of them, but also you!  A friend recently asked this very question as she has B/G twins who are starting school in Sept and they have different views on what they want.  I promised to come up with some inspiration to help.

Bed placement

Obviously it’s lovely to be able to fit two junior/single beds comfortably into a bedroom, but not everyone has that luxury.  Or maybe you want something a little different, a little quirky…

twin kids bedroom
beds in twins room
loft beds

For me if you have the room then I love the 2nd image of 2 beds along adjoining walls.  However if you haven’t got the space or fancy something a little different then I really like 2nd bunk bed layout.  This would work just as well with two single beds and could be created using a single loft bed and separate single bed, giving plenty of options for future re-design.

Colour scheme

And so what do you do if they choose opposing colours?  Go with it…  One thing you do need to do is keep the design simple.  Either stick with one pattern, or stick with a very simple style.  This ensures the colour/decor doesn’t become overpowering and too busy.

monochrome guest room

Stick to a fairly neutral base colour scheme (grey monochrome is a perfect example) and introduce colours in soft furnishings.  With this decor an introduction of two separate colours schemes for each bed would work just as well.

Bedroom ideas for Twins

Here is a fantastic example of using colours to it’s full impact.  Keeping all furniture simple with clean lines, walls kept white and not a flourish in sight means despite the bold colours used, this room looks clean and fresh.

Navy twins room

Navy is also a perfect neutral base on which to design a room.  Keeping the majority of the decor & bedding in the same Navy/White colour scheme means even the introduction of bold stripes doesn’t distract. Here the introduction of bedding/soft furnishings along with personalised artwork means that the room remains cohesive whilst each bed has it’s own individual feel.

Or why not go all out multi colour.  This gorgeous dotty room would work just as well in a bigger boy/girl room.  Ensure the colours wanted by each child are in the ‘multi’ and it will ensure that even if both beds are different colours they will blend perfectly with the room!

Inspired?

So there we have it, I hoped that this has inspired a couple of ideas for you all, and I would love to see your twin rooms.  Feel free to tag me in your posts on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram.

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Kids trends 2018

5 Top Trends in Kids Interiors

As you know I love kids interiors and 2018 seems not to disappoint, with some exciting trends that have been emerging over the last few months.  Check out Kids Interiors for all the latest trends and to find out about new emerging products and brands.  But for now here are my top 5 kids trends 2018.

Rich colours

Rich colours have been sneaking up in children’s rooms for a while now.  You only have to look at Instagram to see some gorgeous examples.  This trend is expected to grow over the coming year.

With muted warm, earthy tones becoming quite the norm for a nursery, and colours such as mustard yellow, muted blues and greens becoming more popular.

rich colours
http://www.bloesemdesign.com/2016/09/rich-colours.html

Boho

Boho is incredibly huge at the moment and long may it continue. We have seen a move towards a little more glamorous boho chic.  With the introduction of metallics and clean lines, ensuring that boho evolves into a slightly more sophisticated look.

modern boho kids interiors
https://www.instagram.com/fourcheekymonkeys/

Velvet dreams

A romantic look is very much en vogue, and what better to create this glamorous and sophisticated look than fabrics such as velvet. Subdued tones, florals, metallics and sumptuous fabrics are the key to this look.

velvet
https://www.decorpad.com/search/green-velvet-tufted-kids-bed

Modern Art

One of my favourite trends at the moment is modern/contemporary art (I do love a gallery wall).  No longer is art just for the grown ups in the house.  There are so many amazing companies out there offering fun and cool prints, canvases and more for kids walls now…

modern art

Geometric Shapes

Like the triangles of the last few seasons, circles are set to become THE geometric shape of kids interiors this year.

circles

Wanna know more about the trends that are here for 2018, then check out kids interiors and read their feature on nursery trends for 2018.

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Is Mummy going mad?

Is Mummy going mad?  I'm not quite sure when I realised my depression had returned, the exact moment that I knew I wasn't coping.  It's a sneaky one depression, no matter how many times you've had before it creeps up on you and before you realise it's too late.  Yes you might recognise the signs of depression a little quicker each time.  But you also think that you can deal with it a little better each time, get a handle on it before having to seek help.  It never really works like that unfortunately.

PND

Postnatal Depression is a depressive illness which affects between 10 to 15 in every 100 women having a baby. The symptoms are similar to those in depression at other times. These include low mood and other symptoms lasting at least two weeks. Depending on the severity, you may struggle to look after yourself and your baby. You may find simple tasks difficult to manage.

PND often starts within one or two months of giving birth. It can start several months after having a baby. About a third of women with PND have symptoms which started in pregnancy and continue after birth.

Is Mummy going mad?

My PND kicked in after having Fred.  Two babies under two, being at home alone a lot of the time, it all just became too much.  I think PND is especially hard to notice in yourself, even after two previous bouts of depression.  People expect you to be low after giving birth.  Everything is put down to the 'Baby Blues' and often (definitely in my case) new mum's are almost too far down the line before they realise that it is more than that.

I definitely didn't want to admit I wasn't coping.  Which is silly considering I already knew that depression was not something to be ashamed of, not something that I could have seen coming.  However I do think there is the added pressure with PND that it's not just about you anymore, there is a baby/babies involved.  To have to own up and say your are not only coping with your own life, but also that you can't cope with your own child's life either, is a real hard thing to admit.  Especially when a lot of the time it is the addition of this little person(s) in your life that seems to have caused the depression.

Breaking point

So 10 years ago this month I reached my limit, I reached breaking point.  I'd clawed my forehead to shreds (my coping mechanism the more depressed/stressed I got) easily covered up by a fringe! My weight was all over the place, I wasn't eating, I was drinking too much, I'd 'failed' at breast feeding yet again, and couldn't even manage to have my kids 'naturally'.  Too far down the line to think sensibly.

As well as being away from family, I was away from friends in the village (we'd moved to a larger house, it was only 5 mins away from the village but I didn't drive at this point), I felt isolated, I felt alone and I felt utterly useless.  In my eyes I wasn't a good mum or a good wife, and that broke me.  It was the final straw (a story for another time), I finally got the help I needed...

The doctors were amazing, taking the time to listen, to figure out the best treatment for me.  After a successful spell of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy I was finally able to enjoy my boys, to realise that I was a good mum and how I felt was normal and wasn't something to be ashamed of.  CBT also showed up some flaws in my character that definitely add to my predisposition to depression and have allowed me to work on these.

#depressionwearslippy

But throughout all of this, how many knew exactly how I was feeling, how many realised how ill I was, even those closest didn't!  Jo @lobellaloves_jo raises this point perfectly with the #depressionwearslippy campaign.  It is not an obvious illness!  So during #maternalmentalhealthawarenessweek lets get this discussion going, share your stories if you would like to, or think it will help you and others.  Or simply read ours to help you realise you are not alone.  Motherhood isn't easy, it doesn't always come naturally, you don't get a handbook, but you are not alone!

Hope this helps...


Be the nice kid

In a world where you can be anything, be kind!

Be the nice kid

As the sun goes down on another week, I’m reminded of just how tough life can be, of just how horrible the human race can be, how cruel and how pathetic….

As many of you will know I was bullied quite severely during Junior School.  4 years of my life between the ages of 7-11 that have changed me forever.  4 years that I blocked out and only really have a few funny/happy memories from that whole time.   4 years that mean I now struggle to pick up a phone to call someone; that mean I struggle to socialise; that mean I have crippling insecurity and sometimes struggle just to leave the house; that mean I can hardly look in the mirror without squirming.

No escape

Now I know how f**ked up I am from school, but imagine being a kid now.  At least I knew that once I was home, I was safe.  Imagine knowing that even when you leave school, you can’t leave the bullying behind.  That no matter what they can always get to you, there literally is no escape!

Not only that but dare to put yourself out there, and you open up to the possibility of being bullied (or trolled as it’s known) by complete strangers.  People who have never met you but feel the need to judge, to comment, to bully…

reuben de maid

Deliberately different

Take Reuben De Maid, an amazing boy of 12 who has a huge talent for singing and also for make up!  Having built up a huge following on social media, Reuben admits to being trolled online, read his full story here https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/3518817/reuben-de-maid-12-year-old-welsh-singer-and-make-up-expert-bullied/amp/

I’ve said for a long time that much as we show our horror for such leaders as Hitler and Mussolini, we as a race are slowly descending into just as much hatred for others creeds, proclivities, in fact anything that makes us stand out.  The divide is growing, two sides; one becoming more narrow minded, more bigoted, more fearful; one championing acceptance and the want to champion the individual.

And this is exactly what it boils down to… fear!  Fear of the unknown, ignorance, fear of being different, of standing out, of being yourself.

How do we stop this, how do we ensure our kids can be who they want to be?  And how do we ensure that we equip our kids to not only have the confidence to be who they want to be, but that they also support and encourage their peers to be who they want to be.

We as a generation need to be strong, we need to be the parents that our kids so desperately need.  We are facing issues that our parents never faced, complexities that never used to be an issue.  But actually it all boils down to the same, we need to show our children how to…

Be the nice kid!

For R x

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